Sunday, June 25, 2006
...::: la.la.la.la. :::...haiz... and i thot that with khai ord' it wld be fun... more time to spend with him.. in the end, he jus keeps sleeping.. and sleeping.. and sleeping... and... zZzZzZ....BORING.so i'm still looking for a better paying job, but have yet to received any phonecalls.. i guess i'm asking for too much money... i mean, i only have a DIPLOMA... watdefaq?!today's my aunt's b'day and we had lunch at some north indian restaurant at riverwalk. it was a buffet, and i had 3 [yes THREE] gulab jamuns! woohoo! [for those of you who do not know what that is, i'm sure you can look it up on the internet. but in two words... HONEY+MILK.] anway, back to the story. my nephews are adorable! especially Matthew [Martin's kid]. but seems that his mom, my cousin's bimbo of a wife, is spoiling him and making him as rude and idiotic as her! haha! my cousin's bimbo of a wife was actually quite ok before, but i guess cos she's young she doesn't know what the hell she's doing and is constantly aggravating my cousin.haiz, with the situation of my cousins on my dad's side, it makes everyone think twice about getting married. and it's horrible that they are constantly asking me to think, and re-think, and RE-think about getting married! argh! i know that i'm young and they most prob think that i'm naive at what not, but i think that i know what i'm doin.i've known khai for almost 2 years now. compared to my cousins who only knew their wive's for less than a year before getting married. of course you won't be able to know that person enough in such a short time. and i KNOW i'm young.. but i also know that i've lived my teenage life all the way. i've done things that i think my parents only knew about AFTER they got married and started spreading their wings. i guess they dun want me to regret getting married.that should will never happen.the only reason, i feel, that causes all the problems in marriages are:- money
- children
- understanding
it's either you don't have them, you have to much, or you can't have them.but shouldnt you have discussed and thought of all that before getting married? khai n i have gone through all sorts on scenarios and we have agreed on almost all of the actions we plan to do if such a situation occurs. shouldnt people do that? it's quite logical. you cant possibly discuss all these after marriage cos by then it'll be too late to back out. and it'll take up too much energy to start changing only then as it might not work out. so you see, i may be young but experience and history has thought me well. i learn from others and i understand more than anyone knows.so don't judge me if you cant judge yourself.peace out....
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