..:: what is love? ::..
is love really enough to sustain a relationship? alot of people are telling me no.
apparently with modernisation, love isn't what it used to be.
love can be bought.
love can be fake.
love can be nothing.love is confusing.why is it that after years of marriage people can fall out of love? why do people lie to their once-upon-a-time 'soul mate'? why cheat on the person whom which you've shared every waking moment with for almost half of your life? why pretend that nothings bothering you when there is? why tell them you love them when you actually love someone else? and how CAN you love someone else when you've made that "all important" vow?
is that what married life is all about?
when you're dating, you fear that someone else will come and take that person away from you. then you get married and think that "phew, now i can relax cos no one's gonna take him/her away from me". after a year [or sometimes LESS], you realize that the competition didn't stop, in fact it just got more intense. the vow doesn't matter. it's just words that would last that ONE day instead of the rest of your life
together.
but how do you know if you love someone? i mean, yeah you've been with him/her for the past few years...then you slip into that 'comfortable' mode and for some it's great...for others, the relationship becomes boring. then what? try to make things more interesting..or
find someone more interesting?
"love is a many splendored thing" -
many people sang this song"love. confused with lust?" -
mila r.men confuse love with lust and can get away with it. women, they get named sluts and whores.
this is just a random post. i just though i'd better get this outta my head rather than keep it all in my heart.
if you fell out of love after our third child gets into school...what would you do? would you lie or would you confess? would you try to love me again or would you have already found a replacement? would you leave me or see the other woman while i'm asleep? would you stay for the kids or leave to save yourself?
you may have thought that i got over it but i haven't. i still feel insecure. it's not that i dun trust you, it's just that i know that no matter what - shit happens. i noe i always pick a fight with you and i'm always the one who wants things to end, but that's because i don't want to have given you my all only to find you walking hand-in-hand with another person. i love you. more than i'll let myself admit. and i guess i'm scared. i may act like i don't care. i may act like i'm not bothered by who you're with. you may think i'm psycho.
what i'm trying to say is.....
i'm afraid i'll lose you to someone else for the simple reason that i can't be all that you want me to be.
11:14 pm
